Firm in Faith: Dealing with Temptation and Divergent Values in Relationships

When tempted by thoughts or friends who rationalize sinful actions with the prospect of later forgiveness, it is crucial to be vigilant and firm in faith, reflecting on the disobedience of Adam and Eve and the grave separation from God that ensues from knowingly contravening God’s commandments. Such actions elevate our will above God’s, essentially deifying our desires.

However, God’s infinite mercy always forgives sincerely repented sins. A healthy soul fortified by robust faith resists temptations and feels guilt and sorrow when faltering, motivating repentance and seeking God’s forgiveness through confession. Conversely, a weak soul, dulled by continual denial of God’s will, succumbs to sin and isolates itself from God, spiraling into a life dominated by passion-driven sins, oblivious to the ever-present God.

Facing temptation from a friend is challenging, necessitating a careful, loving, and clear expression of one’s values without inciting anger or appearing judgmental. Proposing alternative actions and maintaining respect and love for the friend, despite differing values, are pivotal. Engaging in a respectful dialogue about differing values, grounded in humility and mutual respect, fosters understanding and strengthens relationships, reflecting the teaching of Christ to love and respect one another.

Scriptures such as 1 Corinthians 10:13 remind us that God provides a way to overcome temptation, reinforcing our resolve to adhere to Christian teachings and values in the face of challenges and temptations. Balancing faithfulness to one’s beliefs with love and respect for others, especially those with differing values, exemplifies true Christian living.

Remember, firmness in faith, clarity and conciseness in expression, combined with a loving and respectful attitude, can convey our Orthodox values and beliefs effectively, fostering understanding and mutual respect among diverse individuals.

 Note: 1 Corinthians 10:13: “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.”