Self Defense and Loving Our Enemies

In Orthodox Christianity, the command to love your enemies, as taught by Jesus, is understood as a fundamental aspect of Christian life. It involves seeing the image of God in every person and showing love, compassion, and forgiveness, even to those who might wish harm upon you. This command challenges believers to transcend personal grievances and animosities, reflecting the unconditional love of God.

Regarding self-defense, the Orthodox Church generally accepts it when it is necessary to protect one's life or the lives of others from serious harm or death. However, this is always seen within the context of a last resort and with a spirit of sorrow over the necessity of violence. The use of force is to be proportionate and aimed at protecting rather than exacting revenge or causing unnecessary harm.

When facing difficult matters individuals are encouraged to seek guidance from their spiritual fathers in such ethical matters.